Tamara Maat – January 19, 2019
It is truly a risk to be posting about twin flames online, because it will be joining all the other over-generalized posts over the internet, of which many are inclusive of false information and desperate wishes unsuitable of what it takes to be on such a ride. As with everything I write, I am sharing what has been my experience since the journey started in 2014 until it ended in early 2019.
Twin flames (TFs) are twin souls manifest in this life experience to help each other by mirroring. Mirroring is a concept usually misunderstood by people in the spiritual circles, out of good intention or in a manipulative, rather narcissistic manner, so in order to understand what TFs are, we have to start by elaborating on mirroring. With basic quantum physics we know that what is within is manifested in the outside world, and we never attract to ourselves what we do not believe is true. Accordingly, all manifest, “physical” experiences are actually pointers towards what rests within our souls, and only leads to the release of such negativity, if dealt with appropriately. Mirroring does not mean that what the other does to you is the same as what is in you, yet it points at your capacity to attract such a challenge towards yourself. For example, falling for a narcissist does not mean you are a narcissist yourself, but it points out to where you decide to lose your power to someone else.
This is exactly what, at our point of collective awakening, TFs are about. Just as family members usually trigger us the most and present us with the deepest karmic challenges, the TF, being of the same spiritual code, does the same, but even more intensely. It is because of the beautiful alchemy that is created from the first moment we encounter them that we stay through the lesson until its conclusion.
The TF relationship only starts and continues in order to show one about their own inner world, and how their own inner feminine (F) and masculine (M) relate. The F/yin is the right hemisphere of the brain and controls the left side of the body and the para-sympathic system. The M/yang controls the left hemisphere, the right side of the body and the sympathetic system. The qualities of yin/yang are very clear in ancient medicine, and a balanced person who can rise to their self actualization has to have those two elements in harmony and balance.
Many younger souls wish they could be in a TF relationship thinking it is a fancy promotion in the spiritual community. The fact is that it is only a spiritual promotion for those who work their way through it into individual wholeness, and rising to the Queen/King archetype. It is true that one day through the line, the essence of this couple is bound to unite in the physical, yet it does not mean at all that such result is guaranteed even if all the work has been done from one side. It is a relationship, and it basically takes two to tango.
It is the F that has been awakening and realizing the truth about this relationship and its significance. Only very few Fs have been doing the work regardless of the outcome, and even less Ms have been responding as beautifully. The horrors that are usually reflected through the divine counterpart at many times cause the other to fail the karmic opportunity, as it becomes extra difficult to admit that the pain perceived is actually self inflicted.
Even when the F is brave enough to do the inner work, it does not infer that the M does his. Free will is a very sensitive matter. Although the starting point of this relationship signals two souls that are quite equal in their growth level, the work done is very much capable of separating them. Since the universe is fair (if the F perceives it as such!), the sacred chord breaks, and the F becomes free of such a burdening way of relating to another. Indeed, in such a way, the TF relationship seems lost yet it is not, as the F eventually manifests another personality who carries the TF torch for her, helping her grow, without knowing whether the M will be choosing to grow this round too or not.
What has happened for me personally is that I went through the TF experience with three different personalities who all carried the torch for me through my own darkness. I would try to help them but they all opted out of the game, until the last one signed sacred contracts with my current soul mate (on 5D) to let me go for now, as he was not willing to prioritize rising to his divine F energies yet. I, on the other hand, have been finally able to be in a loving balanced relationship for the first time of my life.
Hopefully out of the bushes, I can say that maybe more than half of what I know of my spiritual teachings come from having lived through and survived these experiences. My system was in major conflict with itself; my inner F and M were enemies and nothing was going right. I had sincere wishes to grow and sought it will my heart. Along with the temples of Egypt and all the magical experiences, I owe much of who I am today to the three souls that helped me rise through showing me the deepest wounds wounds within myself that needed to heal.